How to Forget Fashion and Find Comfort in Your Own Style
Developing your sense of style is an essential part of expressing yourself through your clothing.
How many times have you squeezed your feet into a pair of shoes or spent an evening feeling constricted by uncomfortable shapewear? Everyone likes to look good, but this is often at the expense of feeling comfortable. There are probably plenty of times when you have been out and not enjoyed yourself as much as you could, simply because your feet were sore from wearing high heels, or you didn’t dance because your dress felt too tight. So often, the pressure to look good comes before being comfortable and enjoying the moment. But, it doesn’t need to be this way; feeling comfortable and confident in your skin is a much better option than forcing yourself to dress in the same way as everyone else. No one stands out when they simply follow the crowd and dress the same as everyone else, so why not forget about what you think you should be wearing and start dressing in a way that makes you happy?
Developing your sense of style is an essential part of expressing yourself through your clothing. How you dress has a significant impact on how you feel and how you present yourself to others. So, why not embrace your uniqueness and feel comfortable at the same time?
Here are some tips to help you embrace your style and feel comfortable at all times:
Start with Your Feet
If you hate wearing heels and can’t wait to kick them off as soon as you get through the door, then why not skip having sore feet and choose footwear that helps you to enjoy yourself instead? Swap your killer heels for a pair of awesome flats and see how much more you can enjoy yourself when you go on a night out with your girlfriends.
Get the Basics Right
Your underwear acts as the foundation for every outfit you wear, so getting it right is essential. Underwear that feels tight and constrictive can get extremely uncomfortable very quickly, so comfort wins every time. It is possible to find underwear that is both comfortable and looks great, you just need to know where to look. Check out Undywear.com for reviews and recommendations to help you find the right undies for you.
Don’t Be Afraid to Experiment
If you have gotten used to dressing in a certain way and have just put up with feeling uncomfortable, it may take a little while to develop your style. Experimenting with different looks and figuring out what you do like and don’t like is the best way to develop a look that helps you feel like yourself.
Bringing more of your personality into your fashion choices and dressing for yourself and not other people is a liberating experience. Feeling comfortable in your own skin and channeling your own style is a great way to feel more confident and true to yourself. Letting go of other people’s expectations of what you should be wearing and feeling comfortable dressing for yourself is always the best option.
Insecure Where? These Looks Exude Confidence!
Though titled Insecure, the looks that the ladies on this show have been serving this season are far from that!
Though titled Insecure, the looks that the ladies on this show have been serving this season are far from that! Costume designer Shiona Turini, who also designed the clothing elements on Queen and Slim for which she was nominated for the Costume Designers Guild Award for Excellence in Costume Design for a Contemporary Film, is the fashion mastermind behind it all. What I admire most about Turini is that she purposefully seeks out Black designers and brands for Insecure. Doing this is not only important because it gives black designers a platform, but it also connects viewers with the characters as informed young individuals who understand the importance of supporting black-owned businesses. Here are just a few of my favorite looks from this season of Insecure.
First are the Cancun Vegan Leather Blazer and Wrap Skirt by Nanushka that Issa wore to the mixer she threw to promote her upcoming block party. I love this look because it gives me boss vibes which is exactly what Issa is radiating throughout this season. She is all about the success of her block party and has proven to be a hard worker.
My next favorite is the Diverge Drape Dress by Dion Lee that Molly was wearing on her date with Asian-bae Andrew. In my opinion, this dress is so fitting for Molly’s character whose high fashion sense matches her high expectations. Another favorite of mine was the cardigan dress Condola wore by Alessandra Rich. This dress looked so elegant especially with the details on the buttons and reminded me of something I’d see on Coco Chanel.
Another Molly look that I loved was the Asymmetric Deconstructed Blazer by Monse that she wore on the Thanksgiving episode. This top is just so bold and unique from anything I have ever seen, and for Molly to wear it on Thanksgiving there’s no doubt that she is the Beyoncé of her family.
Last but certainly not least, is the light blue pleated dress that Tiffany wore to Issa’s mixer, which happens to be from one of my personal favorite brands, Pyer Moss. The way this dress flows and the color really highlighted how beautiful maternity is and looks on Tiffany. I could probably go on forever about the stylish ladies of Insecure and how Shiona Turini never misses but you guys should just see for yourselves! Tune in with me on HBO Sundays at 10 pm EST.
Photo credit: @Insecurehbo
Report: Corine Gauthier
Access by NKC Holiday Gift Guide
This holiday season is coming up quick and choosing the perfect gifts for your friends and family can be tough… and expensive. Lucky for you guys, we put together a list of some great finds all for $50 and under!
This holiday season is coming up quick and choosing the perfect gifts for your friends and family can be tough… and expensive. Lucky for you guys, we put together a list of some great finds all for $50 and under! Check out these fun, fashionable gifts that will work for any loved one.
01
Tucker + Tate Print Sleep Romper (Big Girls) $39
The perfect holiday season outfit to snuggle up by the fireplace with hot chocolate in, and you still have a left over $11 to grab a pair of cozy socks to go with!
02
Mistletoe LUSH Bath Bomb $7.95/ea.
No one can turn down a mistletoe, jasmine-scented, vegan bath on a cold winter day; visit LUSH online to grab a Mistletoe Bath Bomb for you and your special friend or grab a couple more of their special Christmas themed Bath Bombs! Prices vary.
03
Mixed Plaid Scarf $39
In these cold winter months, everyone can use a scarf to keep them warm, especially a big fluffy one full of holiday colors. Check out this scarf among many other options and colors at Urban Outfitters.
04
Lovello Elizabeth Ladies Jacket $85
Keep it cute & sporty. This black, embroidered fitted jacket is perfect for the get-around athletic outfit or pair with denim for a causal vibe. Shop the jacket at lovelloelizabeth.com
05
Calvin Klein Modern Cotton Bralette Gift Set $44
It’s never a bad time to rock your Calvins, and now it’s time to rock them with some holiday cheer. Urban Outfitters has a perfect red Calvin Klein bralette, that even comes with a matching creamy red lipstick to go with.
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The Burgundy Palette|KYSHADOW $42
Anyone that keeps up with the Kardashians knows that Kylie Jenner’s newest addition to her line, KYSHADOW, has been a huge hit. The Burgundy Palette holds the perfect colors and tones that you’ll want to show off your holiday cheer!
07
BOSS Hugo Boss Spaced Dots Skinny Tie $39.50
Make sure that your whole group looks as great as you, get your guy this perfectly cheerful tie, he won’t be able to resist the festiveness and you won’t be able to resist the price, originally priced at $95, its 58% off and right in your price range.
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‘New Beginnings’ Lotus Pendant Necklace $48
This is a perfect gift just in time for the New Year, wish your person happy new beginnings this year this a meaningful and super cute lotus necklace.
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Commuter Series Wallet Case $44.90
Holiday time means a lot of fun; but it also means a lot of rushing. Don’t let your loved one leave anything behind, with this convenient and sleek looking phone case they can have everything in one safe place! This phone case doubles as a wallet for all your important things while you’re on the move.
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Cara Accessories Faux Fur Collar $48
Fur accents are super in right now… and it’s about to get super cold! Have your loved one fashion ready and warm this season that comes in every color from a flirty pink to a holiday dark burgundy.
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TDM Clothing Cher Dress $65
Says disco and modern with the bell sleeves and a sleek shift dress, style it with a pair of funky sandals and you would look great for that fall/winter wedding.
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Kiehl’s Since 1851 Men’s Travel-Ready Starter Kit $43
Holiday season means holiday party season with lots of friends and family. If you and your guy are on the constant travel have him prepared with the perfect travel-ready kit with all his favorite necessities and more!
Credits: Taylor M., Access by NKC
Style Watch: Zendaya
Being inspired by her older sister and nieces, she created Daya by Zendaya in the Spring of 2016.
Zendaya
We all remember that little girl, Zendaya from Disney Channels' hit shows, but she's not so little anymore! This twenty-year-old women is doing big things for women [and men] on a small budget. Being inspired by her older sister and nieces, she created Daya by Zendaya in the Spring of 2016. "The kind of women we're targeting are real women who want a good shoe they can wear to their job interviews, but still be stylish and not break the bank," says the red carpet killer.
Partnering up with her stylist, Law Roach the duo not only have an affordable shoe line but they are bringing us a classy look clothing line. Zendaya debuting some of her pieces as she guest starred as a judge on Project Runway; posting a picture on IG of her in a velvet suit with a lace body suit with the caption "I gotta admit.....wearing my own stuff feels really good. We've done well @luxurylaw. #DayabyZendaya #clothinglinecomingsoon".
I don't know about you, but I'm looking forward to her pieces she has dropping soon and more exciting shoes to come. Go Daya!!
CREDITS:
Tanisha Brooks
Head Stylist at Access by NKC
HOW TO SEE PARIS IN 48 HOURS OR LESS
"With just two days in Paris, I was determined to knock out all the best sites. Here’s how to conquer Paris in 48 hours." - Aliza M.
During my study abroad experience, we were constantly moving around and would only stay in each city in a few days. With just two days in Paris, I was determined to knock out all the best sites. Here’s how to conquer Paris in 48 hours.
Day One: Notre Dame, Versailles, and the Eiffel Tower
In the morning we headed to Notre Dame. This building is absolutely stunning, and the best part? Free entry. The line may look daunting but it moves quickly and is totally worth the wait. Plus, a great way to make time go quicker while you’re in line is to grab a crepe to eat while you wait. For you “Hunchback of Notre Dame” fans, you can finally fulfill your childhood dream of seeing where Quasimodo lives! After basking in the glory of Notre Dame, we hit up one of the many cafés around the church and grabbed a quick lunch (I suggest a croque-monsieur).
After lunch, we headed to the RER, the above-ground train, to head to Versailles. The train costs about seven euros for the round trip and the ride is about 20 minutes. There are very detailed maps in the station so you know which train to get on and Versailles is the last stop. If you want to tour the palace at Versailles, plan on spending another 15 euros. But, the garden at Versailles is free entry. I paid to tour the palace and it was absolutely breathtaking, but if you are trying to save money, there is plenty to do in just the gardens. We spent the rest of our afternoon touring around Versailles until it closes around 6:00 PM.
We then headed back into the heart of Paris for our last stop of the day, the iconic Eiffel Tower. In front of the Eiffel tower is a large field where you can sit, eat, drink and watch the tower light up at night. We stopped at a grocery store, grabbed some food and set up camp to watch the show. Starting at ten o’clock, the tower sparkles for five minutes and it looks gorgeous. It repeats this every hour until midnight.
Day Two: The Louvre and The Arc de Triomphe
The next morning we headed to The Louvre, the world’s largest museum. The cost of the visit was included in our program costs, but tickets are typically around 15 euros. This museum is huge and you can spend hours upon hours there. The most famous painting in this museum though is easily The Mona Lisa. You have to wait a few minutes to get to the front but it’s totally worth it.
The last big Paris icon is the Arc de Triumph. Due to time restrictions we could not make it to see this landmark, but if you have time left after The Louvre, it is just a short metro ride away. It is located in the center of the Place Charles de Gaulle and is at the end of the Champs-Elyees. The Arc honors those who have fought and died in the French Revolutionary and Napoleonic Wars. Under the arc is the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier from World War I.
There is obviously so much else to see in Paris, but when you only have 48 hours you have to make the best of it! If you have more time, you can check out the many other museums, cafés and shopping areas, but if you only have a short period of time, I suggest these five places. This guide should hopefully be helpful if you are studying abroad in another city and just want to head over to Paris for the weekend. Happy travels!
Credits: Aliza McAndrews, Access PR Intern
5 Instagrams You Should Follow
Add some fresh faces to your Instagram feed! We've pulled five of our favorite personalities on Instagram!
Add some fresh faces to your Instagram feed! We've pulled five of our favorite personalities on Instagram!
Jennifer Grace
@thenativefox
This stylist, editor, model and designer is based in Southern California. She works with major brands such as DVF, Ralph Lauren, Calvin Klein, and Neiman Marcus. Her style is very simple but modern and through her blog you can find inspiration daily.
India Rose
@indiaroseco
This London based blogger runs the lifestyle website india-rose.co. This blog features photography, personal style, short films, music, and interviews. It boasts a fresh and urban perspective and aims to inspire.
Aleali May
@alealiemay
This fashion blogger also works as an image consultant and model. She started her work in fashion with Louis Vuitton and now has collaborated with many brands such as Nike and Adidas. She uses her blog as an outlet to share experiences in not only fashion but also travel and entertainment.
Brittany Xavier
@thriftsandthreads
This California based blogger is very relatable since she regularly wears affordable and easy to access clothing. You can find many of her outfits at stores such as H&M, Topshop, and Zara. She even links her pieces on her blog to make it super easy to find and purchase. She describes her style as versatile, casual and comfortable.
Rocky Barnes
@rocky_barnes
Born and raised in Southern California, this blogger is a beach girl at heart. She describes her lifestyle as gypset, which is a fusion of the carefree lifestyle of a gypsy with the sophistication of the jet set. She created her blog to share her personal style, modeling work and travels.
Curated by Aliza M. (Access Intern)
Editor's Notes - NYFW SS17
A few of our Creative Directors personal tips that she use to get through all fashion weeks.
So it's here! We do this twice a year, sometimes more. Yet, fashion week never seems to lose it's touch. I won't relive the madness this time. Just decided to share a few tips that I use to keep myself organized during the week. If you're attending fashion week for the first time or as another page in the book, I'm sure my suggestions could help.
And as always I've shared a few of the pieces I'm packing for the week. A few will be custom made and aren't listed, keep a look out for those on social media. The pieces are scattered throughout this pieces, in no orders, check for the completed looks later.
Note #1
Pen & Paper aren't dead. The convenience of an iphone can't be beat, I won't even argue that. But writing your free thoughts down in a journal between shows, will bring out the best of your ideas. Don't ask me how I know this, just trust me it works! Still take some organized notes in a more modern way, but keep a journal handy incase.
Note #2
Business cards & social media handles; it's 2016, get both. Networking is something that you can't avoid and unless you're overly comfortable with your current career status, it's something that you won't want to avoid. You'll have your business cards ready to go, but this time when you're wrapping up your networking pitch, ask for that social media handle. Here's why: connecting with someone immediately will make the next time you have to revisit that networking moment so much simpler. Over time you will have built a relationship from social media interaction, now your re-introduction over email should be well received. If they're a frequent social media user, you'll also be up to date with their current projects, making speaking points and collaborations a lot easier as well. Even if they are a private person, they'll have platform for public use.
NOTE #3
Here's a chance to show your multitasking skills. Live tweets can only take you up. I'm not one for flooding Instagram feeds, unless you're certain the images will break the internet. But flooding my TL with tweets from a great event is something I'll always love. While you're at various show, tweet your thoughts as they happen. Readers always love insiders viewpoints and guest images that aren't so staged as major publication images sometimes are. You'll find that more readers may gravitate in anticipation of your next event and honest view points. If your event allows and you have time, consider Periscope for one extra step in live feeds. Seeing a live stream has become a great tool for many this year.
Note #4
Save battery power. If you're like me and attend all day events regularly, you know how important electronic's battery power can become. Most times, having my mophie fully charged with me does the trick. To get the most of my original charge, I make sure to change my apple products battery power to power save mode, even when they're fully charged. I know I check my most important apps on a regular schedule, so there's no reason for my phone to continue pushing for that last email. It also stops my phone from wasting power on apps that won't be used at all that day. Another tip to conserve battery power is to close out apps that aren't being used. It's easy to forget you have multiple apps open on apple products. Just double tap the home button and close out whatever isn't being used. (Sorry Android users, I have no idea how batteries work on those.)
Note #5
Connect on the scene. You'll meet tons of influencers and industry professionals during the week. (No avoiding networking) We spoke about exchanging contact information, but if you really have to chance to speak with someone during the event, see if they have anytime to grab a quick cup of coffee. You'll have a chance to pick their brain for more about their background and work. Making a connection on the spot is always the best option.
If you have any tips that keep you together during fashion week, share them in the comments below or email accessbynkc@gmail.com!