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Reflecting During the First Quarter

January has gone by fast. Very fast. To think we are already on our way to February in the new year can drive you to panic a bit. You may have resolutions you haven’t started yet and even got a bad start in the new year. No worries, this is the time to reflect and plan for the rest of the year. Here are some tips on how you can reflect and reset for the rest of the first quarter of 2021.

Firstly, take the time to write out all of the pros and cons of your first three weeks of January. What were some accomplishments (no matter how big or small) and what were some things you wished you could change. Use those items to help you pivot whatever problems you have for the rest of the first quarter. If you interviewed for a job but didn’t get it, list the reasons why you think you didn’t get the position and work on those challenges. Maybe even reach back out and talk with the company as a follow up to better understand where you may or may not have gone wrong. It’s always a good time to reflect but using this time to do it will only help enhance the rest of your year.

This is also a great time to plan out the rest of the first quarter. Try to list out five goals that you can accomplish by the end of March. They don’t have to be too big, just something that can help you stay motivated. It can be reaching out to a friend you haven’t heard from in awhile or completing an art project that you wanted to complete. Planning out a few things you want to accomplish and get done is another way to feel motivated for the rest of the year. Of course, you don’t want to add pressure on yourself. It’s ok to also just want to live life and go with the flow as well. As long as you take the time out to know what you want out of this year and reflect on what has happened so far, you will be ok.

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Three Things You Should Do in 2021

This year has been one chaotic ride that has been filled with loss and grief but also with moments that help us grow and transform into our better selves. What 2020 has done for us was to prepare us for whatever storm that may come our way. No matter what troubles may come our way we now know how to pivot and continue down the path that life has given us. With only a few days left in 2020, now is the time to reflect and plan for the new year. Whether you have your New Year resolutions, creating vision boards to manifest your goals or you just want to go with the flow, I believe we all should do five things that will make 2021 a great year.

If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s to always create a plan B. I know this year we all had goals and plans to create a magical year full of great memories but was stopped right in our tracks at the beginning of the year. No matter what you plan to do for 2021, it's ok to create a plan B just in case you need to pivot and go down another lane to be successful with whatever venture you’re getting into whether it be business related or personal growth. So, take out that journal and write out your next steps into greatness.

Let 2021 be the year you don’t hold back and just go for it. Get rid of the excuses and go after the things you have been planning to do. Rejection can be very harsh but just know that sometimes rejection can be a path to something much greater. Embrace the uncertainty of the result and let it become an adventure into your light. Trust your gut and just go after what you always dreamed of doing. You never know what will be on the other side.

This is the time to get rid of all the toxic people in your life and surround yourself with people who genuinely love and support you. This may sound tough to do but in the end it would be good for you. Whether celebrating an awesome achievement or going through a rough time, it’s always good to surround yourself with people who really care and not people who are only there for the good times. Defining your friendships now will lead you down a path of good times and great memories in the years to come.

Let 2021 be the year of full transformation and living passionately everyday. Live bravely in the space of maybe and what could be and always do what’s best for you. Now is the time to truly live.